Every generation feels the unique pressure of figuring out how to succeed. But as we get older, our perspectives change, grow, and often give off wisdom that our younger selves couldn’t have predicted. We recently had a chat with a cool group of women over 60 to dig into what success meant to them, then and now. Here’s what they wished they had known in their awesome 30s.
1. Success Isn’t a Straight Line: Here’s a surprise for you – the path to success isn’t always a straight road. Life throws in some unexpected turns, some of them joyful and some challenging. But hey, embrace each twist and turn. Sylvia, who’s 67, shared, “When I was 35, I was always in such a hurry. But now? I’ve come to realize that those detours often lead to the most amazing adventures and teach us valuable lessons!”
2. Value Your Relationships: You know what many women wish they had done differently? Spent less time in the office and more time with their loved ones. As Joan, who’s 71, puts it, “Sure, those presentations at work might fade away, but the memories you make with your family and friends are the true treasures of your life.”
3. Taking Care of Yourself is not Selfish: These women in their 60s and older have been advocating for self-care long before it became a popular trend. Patricia, 65, jokingly said, “I should’ve taken care of myself as well as I took care of my plants! They always got water and sunlight. I should’ve done the same for my soul.”
4. Embrace Failure: Yes, you read that right. Failure is actually an important part of personal growth. Linda, 68, shared, “Every mistake I made taught me something valuable. I wish I hadn’t been so scared of making them.”
5. Never Too Late: Want to learn the piano or start a new career? Go for it! Age is just a number. Carol, 73, started a successful bakery at 60. “Dreams don’t have an expiration date,” she says with a smile.
6. Define Your Own Success: Maybe the most important lesson was that success is personal. It’s not about what society expects or ticking off items on a checklist. Janet, 64, reflected, “I used to think success meant titles and salaries. Now? It’s about finding happiness, purpose, and love.”
Hey, why not share this awesome journey with your buddies? Let’s redefine what success means, no matter what age we are! Remember, being wise isn’t just about getting older, but about living life to the fullest.
